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Tips to Keeping a Cooler Head During Divorce

Maintaining Emotional Health

Going through a divorce can have an impact on a person’s mental and emotional health. The difficulties of working through ending a marriage can cause one to feel a range of emotions that may not be healthy to let fester. Rather than let yourself feel the anger and sadness throughout the process, here are some tips that can help you keep a cooler head during a challenging stretch of your divorce.

Maintain a Positive Mindset

While this might be difficult to do in an extremely negative situation, choosing to focus on the positives in a divorce can help both your mental and emotional health. It can be very easy to think about what has gone wrong or what could go wrong, but allowing yourself to think this way can send you spiraling down a road of negativity that could be seriously damaging. Choosing to focus on the positives, such as viewing your divorce as a fresh start, goes a long way to helping you cope with the difficulties.

Take a Deep Breath

Allowing yourself to be overwhelmed with your emotions can seriously damage both you and your decision-making ability. Many people, in an attempt to get a difficult situation over with as quickly as possible, make rash decisions based on the emotions they are feeling. Rather than potentially make a bad decision, take a step back, take deep breaths, and allow yourself time to think clearly before making any choices. That time spent thinking could end up saving you a headache down the road.

Enlist a Circle of Help

Perhaps one of your best resources during a difficult time is your close group of family and friends. While it can be difficult to talk about your divorce and your feelings when you are going through it, trusting your thoughts and feelings with those closest to you can help you process everything and move through the swamp of emotions more quickly and effectively.

Lean On Your Divorce Attorney

Your divorce attorney is also an excellent resource available to you during this time. Your attorney can help you understand your options and can talk you through challenging decisions when you feel most overwhelmed.

At Johnson / Turner Legal, we know that divorce is difficult, and the range of emotions you are feeling right now can almost feel unbearable. Know that you are not alone. We are here to help you navigate this storm to come out stronger on the other side.


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